Love at first sight

Yes.. has happened to me..

If you are open enough to your gut feelings, you just know when you meet someone that there is a chemistry…I dont mean in the sexual sense, you know that there is just something. I do believe that real love has to grow over time.

My Mum knew she would marry my Dad the moment she saw him. The story goes she was sitting in a cafe with a girl friend and Dad walked in with his mates..He was in the army at the time. She said to her friend that she was going to marry him, he came over to the table and so it was.They were married for 40+ years before he died. I would say they have a good marriage and it was a loving relationship.

Yeah, there is a big difference between love and lust. Not necessarily a guy thing. A lot of people get high on that first meet syndrome, those butterflies in the pit of your stomach, then a couple of weeks later, it wears off, then they look for someone else.

Those moments in time, a real bumer sometimes when I dont go with those gut feelings. Thats why I have those gut instincts, my true self is telling me that this is real, this is what I want, but then the head gets in the way and stuffs it up. I know in my case,that comes down to the fear of rejection, or making a fool of myself, that I miss those opportunities.

I am more intune these days than as a teenager or younger person, so I always try to take the opportunity to let people know how I feel about them. (in a positive way). Ive missed too many opportunities.

I’m not sure in love at first sight – I do believe in attraction at first sight – it might be the way someone smiles and lights up the room or the way their butt looks when they dance…. I’ve certainly been attracted at first sight, and now-a-days am not affraid to speak up and make myself known.

Falling in love with someone happens as you grow with that person and get to know each other, but it certainly happens quicker if they appeal to you straight up. Some of the most beautiful relationships develop from such attraction, but many successful couples also start as just friends or even worse!

I believe it should be a prerequisite to be friends first.
Being in love is all wonderous but it does wear off after you discover all the little annoying things about the other person, so being friends first does allow you to want to be with that person long after the honeymoon period is over, and to know and respect and love that person first is I think the most important thing in a relationship and leads to a much longer time together.
But I do think there has to be that certain chemical attraction for the whole thing to work, so when you look into the eyes of a stranger and have your breath taken away and your heart does a backflip and the butterflies go crazy in your stomach, when that happens all reason and thoughts of friendship first just fly out the window, so I suppose we will continue to search for the perfect partner and hope all the important things will follow lol

NO – definately not, well I dont believe so, I guess it can buy lots of fun, but not the real thing.

How much money LOL ?

NO

There are so many differant types of love. Material things add to the happiness, as we all know financial difficulties is one of the biggest relationship wreckers. But to be attracted to a person solely for financial gain, I couldnt do it.

Graybags wrote:

I think you are overlooking something. I’m a very handsome, fit, caring, respectable person with 11 billion dollars. We fly anywhere we like in our private jet often taking friends and family to romantic and wild places. We live excessive lives but are very comfortable and down to earth. We have a large boat fully staffed, a beamer each and several houses spotted around the globe.

You still going to say No?. You couldn’t love a partner in that enviroment?.

Gee well, now you’ve filled in the details a bit more – well, maybe I’m falling in love, lol !! :)

I dont go much for flying though, but could certainly warm to the idea of a beamer or two – and the boat sounds nice – fishing is very relaxing. BUT
I would still have to like this person to start with for the rest to be appealing.

money can’t buy everything….. but it is fun trying..

yes it would be fun to try to spend alot of money i think i would be hopeless at it to be honest, theres only a few things that i really want but after them i would have to really think lol

@Graybags wrote:

I think you are overlooking something. I’m a very handsome, fit, caring, respectable person with 11 billion dollars. We fly anywhere we like in our private jet often taking friends and family to romantic and wild places. We live excessive lives but are very comfortable and down to earth. We have a large boat fully staffed, a beamer each and several houses spotted around the globe.

You still going to say No?. You couldn’t love a partner in that enviroment?.

Not interested.. would rather be poor, as long as the person I was with loved me for who I am and I loved him the same, thats all that matters to me.

So you would rather live on past memories ( and tits of course) than have the opportunity to make new memories in the present

Graybags wrote:

I’ll take the cash.. as long as she has big tits… and a nice personality of course. Then I’ll secretly live on the much cherished memories of the true loves in my life. Those which have come and gone. And could never be had again. We will grow as one. But that’s why I will smile, unbeknown to my sugar mama, as we dine under the Eiffel Tower.

haha – you’re funny Graybags, however I have to say I can see your point here. I mean, as you say there have to be some attributes ie. bigs tits and good personality – thats a great start to build a lasting relationship and you might even grow to love her. And if the past loves are gone forever and never to be had again, I think one may as well enjoy life to its fullest, and plenty of cash will certainly come in handy for that. You go boy!!

P.S. If I win a few million, I’ll be sure to let you know. :)

To have the perfect loving relationship, I think is a dream and to wait around for mister right, well we might be sitting around forever so why not go for the money and at least have fun and enjoy yourself, sometimes being with someone that is a friend and you respect can be better then some love relationship that goes wrong. I kinda agree with you graybags, not all of it but I know where your thoughts are going. Life is too short so enjoy while you can. That makes me sound shallow and materialistic, if you knew me you would know that iam not like that, so it wouldnt be just the money I was after, anyway who says I could go thru with it anyway lol I do not know unless it was presented to me but it would be interesting to see if I could

@Graybags wrote:

I would love to be a ‘kept man’ Mr. Mom or whatever. As long as she had big tits.. lol. She can even wear my pants. Love is overated.

I have 2 out of 3 Gray.. no one wears my gigi pants ;)

I’m with Graybags…. big tits rock!

Go Sexpistol & Graybags – good to see – you know there are some guys out there who don’t appreciate big boobs, I can’t imagine why a sexy, well defined cleavage doesn’t get attention from some men.

I want to know what exactly do you guys consider as big boobs. I think all men pay attention to big boobs whether they are ogling and wanting to touch or they are discussed by them but from talking to women that have large breasts none I know of have ever complained about getting no attention because of them lol. You either have no face, as far as the male is concerned, or you get drinks spilt down your back from a man tring to look over your shoulder, or you get free drinks lol and the list goes on.

And of course you would pick the short small breasted lady first

gees and she thinks she needs heels like that

big tits are a matter of personal opinion.

I reckon that well rounded firm breasts are a winner.

saggy and small tits are out…

Love at first site… Yes

I’ve seen money ruin perfectly good relationships.

YES I FELL IN LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT
YES MY WIFE IS A GREAT PERSON
YES MY WIFE LOOKS GREAT IN A BIKINI
YES MY WIFE HAS A GREAT PERSONALITY
YES MY WIFE IS HOLDING A GREAT BIG KNIFE

tits are the appetiser to lunch…. and dinnner …. and supper…… and afters…..but they should have been located on females backs… cos that’s better for dancing :)

sex you know that you dont just need to be facing each other while dancing dont you so it really doesnt matter where the tits are, you move

@sexpistol77 wrote:

money can’t buy everything….. but it is fun trying..

YES MONEY CAN BUY ANYTHING HAVENT YOU BEEN TO FORTITUDE VALLEY LATELY

INSANE KIWI

@SOME IDIOT wrote:

YES MONEY CAN BUY ANYTHING HAVENT YOU BEEN TO FORTITUDE VALLEY LATELY

INSANE KIWI

nO i hAVEN’T. hOW mUCH dID yOU gET fOR sELLING yOUR bRAIN tO jESSICA sIMPSON. ??