Sex lies and videotape

Geez you look pretty tonight Felicity..

Anyone that says they havent lied at some point during sex is a fibber oh and i cant imagine any women lying to get sex i think that would be reserved for the male of the species lol sorry guys :D

I imagine some women lie to get out of sex..

i would say you are correct graybags

I’ve never had the trouble myself of course.. 8)
Just what some married people tell me heh heh.. :wink:

Yeh I have as most women do, especially to the usual question, and to get it over with. this only happened in the wrong relationships of coure.
when you are with the right one for the right reason, no need to lie.

Can’t recall having to lie to GET sex, maybe telling or acting out a little white lie to get it over with, not very often though.

I think men are more inclined to tell porky pies to get sex, especially the unhappied married/attached men, gives me more reason to not get married when I hear those stories.

Videotape?.. nope never done that either.. thank goodness.

Well.. not that I’m aware of. :moon:

Graybags wrote:

Videotape?.. nope never done that either

Are you really sure about that? The hiding places for a small camera are endless, I’ve heard strories of people being taped without even knowing it!! Imagine that, you could be a star!! :)

some women lie when it comes to sex, and i don’t mean that they all or some lie to get in the bed with a guy, but they always use the same excuse ‘Not tonight, i have a headache’

What is it with the headache excuse?? Theres got to be a better one than that!!

Personally I think sex can be the best cure for many things, well, good sex of course. It is well known that the release of endorphins can be very advantageous to the body both physically and spiritually.

Generally I find people who appear edgy and a touch cranky are those lacking a decent sex life.

So if you’re telling a few fibs to get sex because it makes you feel better, then go for it, as long as no-one gets hurt. :P

there is a better excuse then a headache ….. BUGGER OFF ……. lol :)

why do we need an excuse anyway?

lol@Cat
Don’t tell an Itallian that.

I’ve heard every excuse. So I learned to put in a little ground work first and avoid the “headache.” I’m happily married but am surprized at the increase of women offering me a little extra special care and attention, if you know what I mean, ;) since I lost my leg.

mmm Dont tell an italian I have told an italian that lol men are men it doesnt matter what nationality they are. What I want to know is the women showing you that extra attention do you love it? I bet you do why wouldnt you.

As long as the ground work isnt the last 20 mins :)

Macka said:

So I learned to put in a little ground work first and avoid the “headache.” I’m happily married

Go Macka you good thing!! How nice to see a fella who doesnt just want to cut to the chase and have it all over with before it starts. If more men were like you the girls might not get so many headaches. :idea:

I hope your wife realises how lucky she is to have someone so considerate.

The ground work isn’t work… it’s the way that you treat each other within the relationship. My experience is that sex is only a part of that relationship and that the rest of the interaction is just as rewarding.

If one is telling fibs just to get sex then someone will get hurt.

Not only the woman, the man also, as they do have feeling too. Depending on who is telling the fibs.

I m sure if one is feeling cranky or upset , its not always about sex.

To use sex to make you feel better, isnt that using people for your own needs.

In this day and age, one would also have to consider cyberspace,
anyone can say anything, with no eye contact, just to get what they want.

I agree with sexpistol, sex is only the icing on the cake. Everything else before is more important.

Everyone lies about and or uses sex to get what they want. Women are experts at at. Clevage at the bar to score a free drink. A short, short mini skirt to catch a guy on the dance floor. Pouting lips when asking for the credit card. Putting a hand on the small of her back to let everyone at the party know she’s your girl. Everyones does it knowingly or not. People only get hurt when they misread these signals.

Graybags wrote

Pouting lips when asking for the credit card.

No, woman do that????

Hehe, I have to agree with Graybags, that everyone (men & woman) at some point may bend the truth a little in order to have their own way and some arent even aware that they do it.

Men have two instinctive auto responses..

She says, “Does my arse look big in this??”. He says, “…No Dear”.
She says, “So, do you really love me??”. He says, “…Yes Dear”.

Any other response is asking for castration. Her first question is usually followed by. “You’re just saying that because you love me” And the second you often get, “Even though my arse is really big”. Never ever respond to these trailing lures it can only result in castration.

Truth never hurts, only bruises the ego.

If a shiela asks “is my arse too big” you should reply “yes” (if the arse is of acreage proportions). “go do some exercise and lose some flab, so that you get the arse size you desire. Then you can stop asking me this question” Also say ” I tell you this because I love you and cannot lie to you”

This automatically negates the second question “do you love me”

The world is your oyster…. How big is your appetite??? 8)

If she was anorexic and asked “Is my arse too big?” – The truth… being
“No you’re too skinny, get this full cream milk and cheeseburger into you before your legs poke a hole in your pancreas”

Seriously, The truth is your only way out of any question (or lie for that matter). The more a person lies, the bigger the fall will be.

Lot’s of truth does hurt in the short term, but I think that is preferable to a longer and more harmful lie.

My sister is a fine example (Graybags can vouch for this one) of someone who lives a life based around a lie that she created. It is now been so long since she spoke to the rest of our family (about 6yrs I think) that she believes her lie to be the truth. Harmful to all.

Enough said :silence:

I cant imagine not having my family around me thats sad to be so distant

“No you’re too skinny, get this full cream milk and cheeseburger into you before your legs poke a hole in your pancreas”

Seriously, The truth is your only way out of any question (or lie for that matter). The more a person lies, the bigger the fall will be.

lol at the cheeseburger and full cream milk!! Ouch at the hole in pancreas, that can’t be pleasant.

I too know someone who has lied since childhood and as a result has lost a wife, fiancee and many, many friends. I’d rather tell the truth and hurt someone – if they are a true friend/lover etc surely it can be resolved – then again, if I was told my arse was of acreage proportion I might be a little hurt, haha.

Ok, this acreage arse has obviously hit a raw nerve…

How many of you posters have honestly asked that particular question?

Ok, this acreage arse has obviously hit a raw nerve…

How many of you posters have honestly asked that particular question?

Felicity wrote:

He’s in the kitchen making dinner

Haha, good to see a man that knows his place!

Ah and what a place the kitchen is. All those utensils and whizzbang things that make cooking so much of a pleasure.

Roasted lamb marinated in mint and honey, with baked crispy potatoes, carrots, pumpkin and sweet potato accompanied by steamed zucchini with italian seasoning and rosemary gravy…….

Might have to start another thread … fav recipes.

I like to share the cooking, together that is lol all that food around