Talking Turkey

What?.. You mean to say that you know men out there who do all that.

I’m moving to Australia. 8)

And then Cat wakes up from her dream to face reality……

No one person can live up to all those expectations….

I dont think its unreasonable to want all of those things, its just a matter of finding someone with all those attributes.

Lets face it men and woman are created differently – very differently, imagine how less exciting it would be if we all understood each others every thought and next move. I dont think men will ever understand woman and vise versa, maybe thats why there is such an influx of same sex relationships.

Tell you what though, I’ll keep my eye out for one like that, if I find any more than 1, I’ll share ’em around, as long as you do the same!!!!

Well I’m still looking for the perfect woman.. a blind nymphyomaniac who owns a bottleshop. But seriously – look up the term “natural selection” basicly Darwin says ugly people breed with ugly people. Yet we will always admire and strive to be beautiful people. Such is human nature we often only see the flaws in ourselves and beauty in others. Men to generally will always look at the prettiest girl first, I say look but knowing inevitably they will settle with someone of equality.

So when you say you want better or he’s not good enough you are really saying that about yourself. Just realise when he/she chose you he was aiming for the perfect girl all along. He feels you are the best he will ever get.

Gee Whiz Graybags, with a statement like that, you should audition for “Queer Eye for a Straight Guy”

Seriously, Super SexPistol77 is here, (He is my brother) and Cat just described him.

Seriously, Super SexPistol77 is here, (He is my brother) and Cat just described him.

Oh SexPistol, good on you, lol!! Is he single????

@sexpistol77 wrote:

Gee Whiz Graybags, with a statement like that, you should audition for “Queer Eye for a Straight Guy”

I know you. You can’t tell me you and your missis aren’t equal.

I don’t think it’s possible is it?. A rough and tough guy with strong hands who can build bark huts and gut a pig.. couldn’t turn around an express how his fellings were hurt by the look his hairdresser gave him. Lets face it.. would you really want him to?..

There’s a couple of solutions I can see:

A: Try dating a schizophrenic. You could have exras in this one.
B: Date two men at the same time. 1 a real man. 1 a real wuss.

There’s a couple of solutions I can see:

A: Try dating a schizophrenic. You could have exras in this one.
B: Date two men at the same time. 1 a real man. 1 a real wuss

HA HA HA HA

Graybags you’re so funny, you should start an “Ask Graybags” thread.

You could be onto something here – the schizophrenic could be a bit scary though, two men at the same time, mmmmm well a bit complicated.

I went out with a mountain man for a while, and you hit the nail on the head, could build anything and gut any animal but just could not express himself – verbally anyway.

And the wuss, well nice to have as friend, but….. hehe, i think we’ve got more chance accepting the little faults in our freinds/lovers and focus more on the things they DO bring to our lives rather than what they DON’T.

Ahhh Cat that comes back to woman being multi skilled, an attribute I haven’t seen many men take on successfully – actually I’m really struggling to think of one who can, hehe!!

With the schizo you could have hubby kids and best friend all in one. lezzo affair even. lol..

Heh.. I was talking to a friend the other day about maintaining a good relationship. The key is to compromise and adapt as you both change in time. if he/she has a good base character that’s all you need or can ask for. People do change taste in music, clothes, outlook, attitude. Many factors like the enviroment and comments can influence these changes. Use them to your advantage.

What if they have a change in sexuality preference??? hehe.

No seriously, thats very true, the soul & basis of a person doesnt change, but as they grow they begin to feel and see different things they like. I think your ideals & goals change too as time goes on, for example what you want as a teenager is generally different to what you want when you turn 25 and so on.

@Cat wrote:

i dont know graybags but I know I have had to get down and dirty, deal with the worst things imaginable and then in the space of a very short time be the most loving, affectionate, sexy, feminine women so if we can why cant a man be able to be rough and tough and then express their feelings and be understanding

Men ‘in general’ just don’t work that way. We get down and dirty then scratch our butt grab a beer and talk about sport girls and tell dirty jokes while watching tv. We don’t express touchy feely emotional stuff because we don’t generate or store that stuff.

Don’t be fooled, men multitask, just that we do it in our head. usually we are working on one problem but solving another. Always 10 steps ahead in our mind working out the fastest way to achieve an outcome. Often it’s sex or a shortcut to same on our mind but still, that’s how we multitask. Mentaly.

Cat.. What are you looking for? Sounds to me your looking for something in the wrong place. Are you looking for someone to fill all of your needs, someone like the knight in shiny armour. Only happens in the movies.

No one person can fill all of our needs and wants. As graybags said, a good relationship takes compromise. I ll add communication, respect, trust, unconditional love, to name a few. It also takes self esteem, self worth, confidence on your part.

We only attract the people we believe we are worthy of. If you are attracting the low life, then thats what you believe you are worthy of.
If you want the good, then you have to change your thinking and attitudes to attract them. That starts with self respect, esteem etc. The right person could be there with you and somehow you push them away, because you believe you are not worthy.

Ask yourself, are you the best wife. lover, friend that any man would
want. Are you that perfect that you have everything a man would ever need? Probably not, nor has any man. Even if you had the perfect
man,and if you are not happy within, then you would still find something wrong with him.

Men and women are different. Not all men are insentitive to our feeling, and doesnt mean they are wuses if they are. Not all women are sentitive to mens feelings either.

If you are in a relationship, start looking for the positive, and not always the negative.

OK girls, the answers in today Sunday Sun. Am article about how perlexing mystery men can be to their women. Steps to find your man.In Body and Soul lift out – How to find you right partner?
There you go, its in the papers so it must be right huh?

Yeah.. Playboy tried to make one of them for us men.

They ran out of ink.

That would be a nightmare. I don’t think there is such a country. Even the old matriarchial society ways of the ledgendary Amazonian women has been tamed by missionarys.

I call it ‘Bedfriends’.. It can get complicated.

*singing I fell like chicken tonight.. like chicken tonight.. lol.

Hahahahaaa… you don’t need a man.. you need a toolbox ;)

sounds like you need a butler for the chores and the pool guy to provide the entertainment

I’ll have a couple of them too thanks sexpistol while you’re handing them out, I want someone who specialises in massage – maybe the pool guy can double for that one???

Irregardless of the relationship we are within – pool guys & massages included – alot of it can depend on whether or not we are the hunter or the hunted. So often we seek out those people who seek to touch us & hopefully we are also rewarded by touching them also. Poised and crouching like the prize fighter awaiting his turn to zoom in for the kill, we wait and we watch, waiting for the special someone to say that magical word -‘hello’. Once the magical word is spoken, it is only then that the voyage commences.

Wise words young grasshopper..

So are you the hunter or hunted type?.

Definitely hunted. I’m to shy to “hunt”. Besides isn’t it better to let men think they are good at something. Knuckle dragging neolithytes are good at killing stuff like turkeys. Just bad at stuffing it.

Hehehe.. I’m starting to wonder if you’re a switch hitter Felicity.. lol.

You crack me up ;)

Im with you cat Im the hunter but let the hunted think hes the hunter men lol :love: :)

@tigerwaltz wrote:

Im with you cat Im the hunter but let the hunted think hes the hunter men lol :love: :)

SOUNDS LIKE WHAT YOU GIRLS NEED IS A RICH POOF WITH A NEVER ENDING SUPPLY OF DUBBLE A BATTERIES . PS IM GOING OUT SIDE TO HUNT TOADS NOW………SEE I AM THE HUNTER TYPE .

Mmmmm.. I love the hunter type IK. Come dart me big boy and strap me to your bull bar. That turns me on. My head would look great mounted on your mantlepiece between the Gerbrils and your relatives.

How soon we forget.