Thinking ahead

I sometimes think about my life in ten even twenty years form now were ill be. I still live at home with my parents i lived there for about seventeen years i am in my mid twentys now because i am in a wheelchair it is hard to just move out and find my own place because there are so few houses and flats that are desighned for people like me in mind. I know that i wont be able to stay where i am forever that one life will change and i will have chose but to try and find my own place. Because of the way i am i will always need help i dont like being helped but its just something i have to accept.People like myself need cares that help with the day to day living things such as getting out of bed, dressed, personal matters like tolieting and showering. When i think that one day i will need this is fucking scary but i guess i will just have try and addapt to the changes i in my life. As humans we are natually capable of copeing with change if im honest i would rather die then have to live my like that. If there are any cares or people like me out there i would to here your thoughts on this.