Read through similar posts here and you will see a pattern. It is common, for men especially, to shy away at the first and often subsequent intimate encounter. Best thing you can do is step back. Back off and give him time to decide what he really wants. You owe this to yourself. Trust me, it is better to know his true intentions now than grow closer only to fall apart in a year or two. This is your chance to show him your life is not a game, not some toy for him to play with.
You did not need to apologize. I believe you knew that but did anyway, why? He will see that as weakness. Imagine your best friend sitting on your shoulder. Or a mini version of you. What would they tell you to do? I believe they would want the best for you.
Give him space. Wait for him to contact you. If he doesn’t then you dodged a bullet. If he does be strong and lay down your terms. Keep the ball in your court. Then you can decide how and when to return it.
September 29, 2021 at 19:52
in reply to: Welcome#16139
It can be awkward at first not knowing what to say, how to act. just be yourself and treat them like you would any other person. Take your time. If you have any questions we’re happy to help.
September 22, 2021 at 19:17
in reply to: Welcome#16124
Hi legless, welcome to the forum. I had my own electrical contracting company. As you can imagine quadriplegia made that line of work near impossible. Now I do small business and corporate accounting. What do you do in your spare time?
Trying to break into a car with a coat hanger and some guy says “Hey did you lock your keys in the car?” No buddy, just washed it and thought I’d hang it up to dry.
Woot! I finally got a can crusher! A friend bought me one through ebay, brand new $29. Now I just need to mount it somewhere solid and it’s cha-ching, money in the coffers, drink up boy’s.
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