Sorry I m late.
great fireworks as usual Graybags…. saw them from the road.
glad to see Macka made the party this time… whats he doin in the cage?
So what have I missed… wheres my drink?
Cat.. What are you looking for? Sounds to me your looking for something in the wrong place. Are you looking for someone to fill all of your needs, someone like the knight in shiny armour. Only happens in the movies.
No one person can fill all of our needs and wants. As graybags said, a good relationship takes compromise. I ll add communication, respect, trust, unconditional love, to name a few. It also takes self esteem, self worth, confidence on your part.
We only attract the people we believe we are worthy of. If you are attracting the low life, then thats what you believe you are worthy of.
If you want the good, then you have to change your thinking and attitudes to attract them. That starts with self respect, esteem etc. The right person could be there with you and somehow you push them away, because you believe you are not worthy.
Ask yourself, are you the best wife. lover, friend that any man would
want. Are you that perfect that you have everything a man would ever need? Probably not, nor has any man. Even if you had the perfect
man,and if you are not happy within, then you would still find something wrong with him.
Men and women are different. Not all men are insentitive to our feeling, and doesnt mean they are wuses if they are. Not all women are sentitive to mens feelings either.
If you are in a relationship, start looking for the positive, and not always the negative.
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